My Mom left last night after 6 wonderful weeks together. As I was crying in the car on the way home from the airport, I realized how blessed I was to be able to cry over this situation. Not everyone gets the chance to cry because their Mom has been with them 6 weeks and now they will miss them. Not everyone would want to cry after being with their Mom for 6 weeks or if they did they might cry for joy :) So, needless to say, I am very blessed to have such a wonderful Mom who was willing to fly all the way to Saudi Arabia to live with us for 6 weeks. Who helped keep me sane with a new baby, helped keep us fed, clothes washed, and kept me entertained while feeding. We really didn't do a whole lot while she was here besides take care of the baby but it sure was great to have company.
Now I have to try to remember how to live in my house without someone always there to talk to or hand Jacob off to if I need to do something. Jacob now has to learn how to not be held all day in order to let this Mom cook dinner and wash clothes. The first couple days will be hard but I know eventually we will get used to our new life. Every time I want to cry, I think of the joy of having such a wonderful mother. I am truly blessed. Hopefully I can be the same for my precious boy.
* Thanks to my Dad for loaning Mom out
Did I mention I also have a fantastic mother-in-law. She was able to stay with us for 4 weeks and help with Jacob, cleaning, food, and also keep us entertained. Not many people want to spend that much time with their in-laws but I appreciated every moment. Marvetta and my Mom helped each other out with baby stuff and the not as much fun stuff like laundry. We are so grateful for all of her help. It's such a blessing to have 2 wonderful Mom's around to get advice from and to help get me started in my mom-hood. She did raise a pretty fantastic son!
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Thursday, July 26, 2012
One Month
Jacob is officially one month old (I'm a little late on this post so actually he is older) and I can't believe how much our world has changed. Everyone tells you all about how much your life will change but you can't really grasp it until you experience it. Our life has changed. Now there is this little helpless person that depends solely on us to take of him and provide for him. What a responsibility! I have loved getting to know our little boy and experience the joy he brings to the world. Jacob's first month has been very eventful. He has met his grandparents, gone on walks, laid by the pool, eaten at Chilis, Outback Steakhouse, Patya, and Applebees. He has been to a birthday party, had a 4th of July party, and invited all his girlfriends over for lunch. He has been weighed, measured, and photographed. Here are some of his first month stats.
- weighed in at 8lbs 13 oz.- gained 2 lbs in 1 month
- 22" long - grown 1.5" since birth
- Eats about 3-4 oz a feeding and is doing well with breastfeeding
- Jacob typically go to bed around 11:30pm and then sleep until around 3 or 3:30. Then I take a bottle and sleep until about 7:30.
- I have been very blessed with lots of help. Either my Mom or Micah's have been giving Jacob the middle of the night feeding so I can get a solid amount of sleep= Amazing
- Jacob hated diaper changes, baths, and generally being naked. But he's starting to get used to it.
- I've had lots of baths and just like diaper changes, at first I hated them. Now they aren't so bad.
- Jake does great at tummy time but doesn't last very long.
- On his one month birthday he rolled from his tummy to his back
- I've been on walks, went to the pool, had a 4th of July party, and visited Khobar
- We are still waiting on my passport but are hoping it arrives soon
We love our little boy so much and can't believe how much he has changed our lives. He is such a sweet wonderful boy. I thank God everyday for allowing us to be his parents.
- weighed in at 8lbs 13 oz.- gained 2 lbs in 1 month
- 22" long - grown 1.5" since birth
- Eats about 3-4 oz a feeding and is doing well with breastfeeding
- Jacob typically go to bed around 11:30pm and then sleep until around 3 or 3:30. Then I take a bottle and sleep until about 7:30.
- I have been very blessed with lots of help. Either my Mom or Micah's have been giving Jacob the middle of the night feeding so I can get a solid amount of sleep= Amazing
- Jacob hated diaper changes, baths, and generally being naked. But he's starting to get used to it.
- I've had lots of baths and just like diaper changes, at first I hated them. Now they aren't so bad.
- Jake does great at tummy time but doesn't last very long.
- On his one month birthday he rolled from his tummy to his back
- I've been on walks, went to the pool, had a 4th of July party, and visited Khobar
- We are still waiting on my passport but are hoping it arrives soon
We love our little boy so much and can't believe how much he has changed our lives. He is such a sweet wonderful boy. I thank God everyday for allowing us to be his parents.
We love our little man so much!!
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Week 1
Wow! I know the first week of a babies life is always an emotional, tiring, growing experience but I don't think there is any way to actually be prepared for everything. The exhaustion of delivery, the emotion of a beautiful new life, and adjusting to having this little person completely dependent on you is quite a change. Micah was able to experience his first Father's Day the day after Jacob was born. Jake had a cute outfit to honor daddy for father's day and I gave Micah a new OSU shirt. What perfect timing for Father's Day!
We were pretty lucky and were discharged from the hospital the day after delivery. I had expected to be in the hospital another night but we were pleasantly suprised when the nurse asked us if we wanted to go home. We started getting everything ready to go and the doctors started their final checks to get us out. One of the last things they told us was that Jacob's jaundice levels were slightly elevated and that we would need to come into the hospital the next day for blood work to make sure they were still ok.
When we arrived home we took some family pictures as we first entered our home as a family. This was also Gizmo's first time to meet his "brother". Gizmo has been around quite a few babies over the last few years so he wasn't that surprised to see Jake. I think he's been a little more surprised that this one never seems to leave.
Our first evening home, Brooks and Gavin Perry came over to meet Jake for the first time. They weren't able to make it to the hospital since Miles got sick and we were discharged earlier than expected. Gavin has been excited about meeting Jacob for months! He was so cute checking him out and meeting him.
The next day, Micah and I took Jake to a hospital here in Jubail just to have his blood work checked. They called us a couple hours later with the results and wanted us to bring Jake in to be admitted. AHH!! We weren't really sure what we wanted to do since this was not our preferred hospital and we really didn't enjoy our experience with the doctor when we were there. So I called our hospital and gave them the numbers and they told us we were still ok but would need to have it checked the next day. We also talked to Micah's brother who also said we were still ok but that we would need to monitor his levels. After doing some research on jaundice, we found that frequent feedings and exposure to light helps with jaundice. So my Mom and I decided to take shifts that night feeding Jake every 1.5 hours and sleeping with him under the only fluorescent light in our house. It was a long, exhausting, scary, emotional night.
After our experience at the local hospital, I decided the next day I wanted to return to SAAD to have him checked out. This way if they wanted to admit him we would be at the hospital I wanted. And our fears were confirmed and the doctor wanted to admit my little baby. A huge blessing was that this doctor was willing to work with me and allow Jake to be admitted into the Pediatrics wing instead of the NICU. This allowed me to stay the whole time with him and continue to breastfeed. The only bummer of this room was that it was semi-private so I was sharing a room with other people. However, in the end it worked out just fine. Jake and I were well taken care of and I was able to get some rest while he baked in the tanning bed.
24 hours later we were once again discharged from the hospital! I was so excited to get to be going back home and hopefully this time to stay. His jaundice levels were still slightly high but they were on the down trend and he was looking better every hour.
In his first week, Jake also had his first sponge bath. Our little boy is NOT a fan of diaper changes, changing clothes, or being naked in any way. So needless to say so far he is not a fan of bath time.
Jake also went to his first birthday party in his first week of life. His friend Savannah had her first birthday party on the compound in Jubail. It was an Owl themed party and Savannah was looking super cute. Maybe one day she will go for the younger men :) For some reason I didn't bring my camera to this so I will have to get some pictures from Laura.
During the first week we were blessed with many home cooked meals from different families. It was such a blessing to have dinner taken care of multiple nights and lots of times even leftovers for lunch! One night we went over to the Perry's for our dinner and Jacob and Miles were able to finally meet. Miles was so enthralled with Jake.
At the end of his first week of life, Jacob got the best 1 week present- he met his Papa! Papa arrived from the USA late Friday night. What a great way to celebrate 1 week!
We were pretty lucky and were discharged from the hospital the day after delivery. I had expected to be in the hospital another night but we were pleasantly suprised when the nurse asked us if we wanted to go home. We started getting everything ready to go and the doctors started their final checks to get us out. One of the last things they told us was that Jacob's jaundice levels were slightly elevated and that we would need to come into the hospital the next day for blood work to make sure they were still ok.
When we arrived home we took some family pictures as we first entered our home as a family. This was also Gizmo's first time to meet his "brother". Gizmo has been around quite a few babies over the last few years so he wasn't that surprised to see Jake. I think he's been a little more surprised that this one never seems to leave.
Our first evening home, Brooks and Gavin Perry came over to meet Jake for the first time. They weren't able to make it to the hospital since Miles got sick and we were discharged earlier than expected. Gavin has been excited about meeting Jacob for months! He was so cute checking him out and meeting him.
The next day, Micah and I took Jake to a hospital here in Jubail just to have his blood work checked. They called us a couple hours later with the results and wanted us to bring Jake in to be admitted. AHH!! We weren't really sure what we wanted to do since this was not our preferred hospital and we really didn't enjoy our experience with the doctor when we were there. So I called our hospital and gave them the numbers and they told us we were still ok but would need to have it checked the next day. We also talked to Micah's brother who also said we were still ok but that we would need to monitor his levels. After doing some research on jaundice, we found that frequent feedings and exposure to light helps with jaundice. So my Mom and I decided to take shifts that night feeding Jake every 1.5 hours and sleeping with him under the only fluorescent light in our house. It was a long, exhausting, scary, emotional night.
After our experience at the local hospital, I decided the next day I wanted to return to SAAD to have him checked out. This way if they wanted to admit him we would be at the hospital I wanted. And our fears were confirmed and the doctor wanted to admit my little baby. A huge blessing was that this doctor was willing to work with me and allow Jake to be admitted into the Pediatrics wing instead of the NICU. This allowed me to stay the whole time with him and continue to breastfeed. The only bummer of this room was that it was semi-private so I was sharing a room with other people. However, in the end it worked out just fine. Jake and I were well taken care of and I was able to get some rest while he baked in the tanning bed.
24 hours later we were once again discharged from the hospital! I was so excited to get to be going back home and hopefully this time to stay. His jaundice levels were still slightly high but they were on the down trend and he was looking better every hour.
In his first week, Jake also had his first sponge bath. Our little boy is NOT a fan of diaper changes, changing clothes, or being naked in any way. So needless to say so far he is not a fan of bath time.
Jake also went to his first birthday party in his first week of life. His friend Savannah had her first birthday party on the compound in Jubail. It was an Owl themed party and Savannah was looking super cute. Maybe one day she will go for the younger men :) For some reason I didn't bring my camera to this so I will have to get some pictures from Laura.
During the first week we were blessed with many home cooked meals from different families. It was such a blessing to have dinner taken care of multiple nights and lots of times even leftovers for lunch! One night we went over to the Perry's for our dinner and Jacob and Miles were able to finally meet. Miles was so enthralled with Jake.
At the end of his first week of life, Jacob got the best 1 week present- he met his Papa! Papa arrived from the USA late Friday night. What a great way to celebrate 1 week!
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Hospital Visitors
Even though our little Jacob was born in the far away land of Saudi Arabia he still was greeted into this world with lots of loving visitors. I know I have said this many times before but we are so blessed to have so many people here in Saudi to support us and love on us. Our first visitor actually arrived before Jake was born to bring us lunch but instead of lunch we ended up with a baby. My best friend Lindsey was able to join us in the room the moment everything was "cleaned up". It was great having her there so early to have some time without everyone else. Plus, I was able to eat half of her lunch once I had recovered.
Since it was a VERY long exhausting day, everyone was kind enough to leave pretty early that evening and let Micah and I get some rest. The next day before we checked out of the hospital we had our final visitors Laura and Savannah.
Thanks so much to all of our wonderful friends for coming to visit and for bringing us food and drinks. We feel so very loved!
After a few hours, they moved us from the delivery room to our long term stay room. The hospital didn't have any "Private" rooms available so they put us in a "Semi-Private" room but all alone. This actually works out better because there is more room and an extra hospital bed for Micah to sleep in.
That evening we basically had a party in our hospital room for Jake. Steve and Inez stopped by once Steve got off work and were kind enough to bring us dinner from Chili's. Our friends Tara, Jamie and their little boy Aden were also able to make a stop by the hospital. It was fun to see Aden's responses to Jacob.
Around the time Steve and Inez and Tara and Jamie were leaving the hospital our friends Dan and Heather arrived. They are expecting their own little boy in November. We can't wait for them to be friends!
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